The Circle

Let me ask you one thing. Is it possible to juggle all that you are responsible for? Or does one or two items/people/tasks/goals always get left behind, shrinking in their importance? Until they revist your mind either by you actually remembering them or worse - being reminded by someone else. I know there are superwomen out there that, on the surface, are juggling a career, kids, boyfriend/husband, hobbies, the gym, blogging, a clean  house, a clean car, grocery shopping, being a chef that continuously comes up with magical recipes that happen to be delicious AND healthy AND on budget, all at the same time.

But I don't think they are really that successful. I do NOT think it is possible. Someone - somehow - in their circle of control is unhappy or something is not quite getting the attention that it deserves. Just when you think you have it under control at work - that you haven't turned into a hairless devil cat that ends up throwing the hot coffee in your snarky coworker's face or that you have actually managed to put 2 healthy dinners on the table so far this week or that you gave your kid a bath, fed him broccoli AND read him a book all in one night - something breaks. And breaks hard. And it was one of those things or people that you totally took for granted. And before you know it you are quickly brought down to reality and reminded that you DO NOT have it all together. Oh no - not even close, sister. You feel kind of shocked at first - like how? How could this have slipped through my fingers? How did this get so bad so fast?

Oh Really?

Considering you didn't get to the gym at all, you haven't even come close to doing any sort of a hobby other than picking out all the blue m&m's, you let your kid go an extra day without a bath because "he" was just too tired and laundry is an afterthought as you comb through your closet to see what wouldn't make a blind man whince if he sensed you coming, you should have had tons of time to focus on that circle of people and goals that are important to you right? Come on!

You would think. It happens. I didn't try hard enough. I guess I will give the circle another try. Here goes.

Connect the Dots

Here is attempt number one at getting back on the horse, so to speak. I'm getting distracted watching The Big Chill - one of my all time favorite movies. Have you seen it? It popped into my thoughts a few hours ago and I went on a search for it. Found it! I remember just how much I love this movie. Anyway, what do you get when you wear giant white polka dots? A reason to snap a photo...

 Photos by Brian :) thanks!

Polka Dot Dress: thrifted, Goodwill

Black Leggings: NY&Company

Black Cardigan: NY&Company

Boots: Steve Madden

Pink earrings: vintage

Ho Hum

Sorry for the absence - guess the title should be "most boring blog right now while I deal with stuff". I have had absolutely no creative juices flowing lately. I know it's because I have been way too busy at work and I feel mentally zapped when it comes to anything beyond that. It's been this way at work since the beginning of December. It's getting a little old now. I'm hoping things will lighten up. Seriously. I can't seem to think of putting a decent outfit together, I'm tired, I'm cranky and just all around boring right now. If it requires any effort, I just shy away from it. Maybe this weekend I can dig down deep and pull something out of my hat. I'm #1) hoping work will balance out #2) keeping my eyes open for other jobs #3) contemplating giving up entirely and living out the Eat Love Pray book word for word. Except the first part. Just skip the first part and start off eating delicious pasta. Actually, just stay in the part of eating pasta. Well...maybe a little Bali wouldn't hurt? Ok Ok You've convinced me. Italy and Bali it is.

To save you from anymore of my ramblings, I will sign off and strive to bring something worthwhile to the table next time. Until then, my little fuzzy peaches, enjoy life!

A Coincidence of Sorts

I had no idea there was a Breton stripe challenge going on out there in blogorama world the past few days. But here I am wearing my stripes today and BOOM get to contribute to the "Wear Your Breton Stripes" today like I'm on auto pilot or something! I love it when my telepathic skills really start shining through...

Jessica's blog where I found out about this challenge and Kendi's blog where I found out even more!! Check out the button at the top to see like eleventy billion more girls wearing Breton. That's right. 

 Photos by Brian - thanx :)


Breton Stripe Top: Kohl's
Denim Jacket: Thrifted
Gray Skirt: NY&Company
Tights: Target
Red Boots: Thrifted

The Gift

I came home one day last week to find a mysterious little package on the table. Inside was this beautiful grandpa cardigan! A gift from my sweetie pie. I have been pretty much wearing it nonstop. I've remixed it about 4 different ways and I can still think of plenty more. It's so very cozy. Which is perfect because when I can get out of wearing a coat I will do it in a heartbeat. I will try not to bore you with seeing it too too many times, but it just might come back around for a visit before winter leaves me.

 Photos by Brian


Sweater: Modcloth "Staycation Cardigan"
Dress: NY&Company
Leggings: NY&Company
Heels: Forever21
Vintage Fur Hat: Etsy

1978

 Jimmy Carter was President. 

Cost of a first class stamp was $.13.

Best Picture went to Annie Hall.

Album of the Year was Rumours by Fleetwood Mac.

The year I was born.

 

  Photos by Brian - thanx :)

Pink Sweater: Gift from my mom! Isn't it adorable! Love the crocheted flowers

Polka dot blouse: vintage

Jeans: Family $

Shoes: Modcloth

Hat: Modcloth

Heart Necklace: vintage

Circle Necklace: local handmade

Here's how I wore the blouse, jeans & shoes before:

A Different Place and Time

It feels like so long ago but it was just last October when my younger brother got married for the first time to his lovely and beautiful sweetheart, Erica. They had a small, intimate wedding in the backyard at my mom's place. It was the sweetest wedding... I took a few photos for them and I have finally got around to sharing them here. It was a gorgeous autumn day that day - the beautiful, warm sunshine and green grass with the soft, purple mums to catch the sunshine. I sincerely wish them the best of luck. Thank you guys for allowing me to share in your special day. I hope you have so many wonderful years together that when you look at each other you see your best friend looking back. Love you,